Part 2-H moving out

[Georgiabelle]

Thanks for commenting Courageouswife. I'm regrouping and away with my kids this weekend. I know when we get back it will be tough to see h's stuff gone, but sadly the h I know has been gone for about 3 months. Heck , even my 10 and 9 yr old ask, "what happened to our dad?" It's sad but we can't control him.

Yes, my oldest son is moving into h's office. I know this will be a big adjustment , but we are going to be okay. I keep reminding myself that our lives can't be paused because h spends all of his time with 25-27 yr olds and seeks relationship advice from them. It's his journey and we weren't invited. And quite frankly, I'm having a difficult time believing this is the same man who slept every night at the hospital with me after 3 c sections. He looks similar on the outside, but he's cold to everyone-including his kids.

I just keep reminding myself that I gotta keep detaching......