Everything you posted in your previous post is typical WAS speak and behavior. Don't allow it to discourage you.
I bet most of us LBSes would say that our WASes don't change their minds after they make a decision. I felt that to be true with my STBX. They all married with the intent of a lifelong commitment, yet they have changed their mind. Do your part to change the dynamics of your sitch and leave the rest up to God.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa