He's living at a (loser) friends house. In my H words, "sleeping in a cold and cluttered basement".
His anger and blame still rear their ugly heads even on a small scale nearly every time I am in contact with H, but we have a lot less tension than when he was in the home. Him being out of the home has made it so much easier for me to detach. But also sad that our sitch has reached this point. We just keep getting further and further apart and I see no light at the end of the tunnel as far as the future of my M.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014