Separated and on a Walk

[melissag]

I agree with 3boyz up there . . . she is a wise one!

If I could, I would take my kids on trips every time I have them! I love getting away and just enjoying them. And, a little free time for a beer after the kids are asleep never hurt anyone!

Paul, I kinda think you and I are in the same place with our H/W right now. I think we are both wishing they would/could be different than they are. I find myself nodding at some of the things you say (like, that this is no different than if your W was with you - actually, I sometimes find myself thinking that things are easier or less stressful when my H isn't around), and I also feel how much you hurt.

You are doing really well . . . hang in there!