There are a couple of more points I want to make about her: - Her "animal" personality type is a beaver. I found out this means she likes to follow through with stuff and not change her mind too much once she is set on something. - Last time we spoke about the M (2 weeks ago) She said she was getting "signs" from God that she is making the right decision. She said she loves me but she is being "led" on this path. Honestly, what is interesting about this is that since we go to church together, when the pastor preaches, she only seems to listen to the "be strong and it will be fine later" messages and ignores the "forgiveness, love, etc..." messages. It seems she has tunnel vision. I guess this point is moot for me, as bringing religion with her had gotten me in to trouble in the past. - She said "she can't go this far to just regress. Where does that leave me?" - when she said this it almost sounded to me that she kinda knows there is a degree of wrong with the D but she may have too much pride to stand her decision to not end up letting me "win?" -- Of course, it does not help that one of her good friends is against me and event helping her getting the D stuff done.
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms