I am sorry to see this happening again. What a real DUMBASS H is lately!
I would strongly encourage you to post here before responding to H's texts. We are here to support you with some input, insights, and information from our hard earned stripes in DBing.
H texted me and said, "so just so I can stop speculating, how did you view my match profile?"
If I were you, I'd respond to him in this way:
Really???! Are you that dumb to ask me that question?! You're an idiot.
Sometimes throwing a well-placed truth dart does the trick. And deflate H's overblown ego!!
M, please, please come here FIRST for feedback before responding to H. In my case, in the very early stages, I came to my threads frequently for feedback and input from the vets whenever Ms. Wonka sent me an email on how best to respond to her. It was because I knew that the vets would set me straight and give me the best possible advice on how to respond to Ms. Wonka.
Likewise for you. It isn't that you cannot do this, but because you are VERY NEW to this. Okay? Use us and OFTEN.
