Our family breakfast date went very nice, talking about DD & random stuff...all good. Then h went home for a bit, and we met up a little later to do some shovelling and moving some vehicles. Then when he was dropping me back off at my car, we sat there talking about sasual work stuff for about another hour. Then he had to go. This is the first time, I haven't really rushed off.
Expectations were a little high, as I had wanted him to reach out and hold me somehow or get into some R discussion or something. Gosh... I really miss touch! Yes, those are MY wants... not my actions. I know he misses affection. After our mediation appt. I had asked him what are some of the ways that he liked that allowed him to feel loved by me. He stated, the fact that I made the efforts to reach out to him.
I have noticed tho.. he does allow me to touch him without pulling away. Today, he got up from under a vehicle, covered in snow and he allowed me to brush him off and under his jacket & bum too. He also allowed me to adjust his sweater. I just want him to reach out & grab me, hold me and kiss me!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
