She left - My Story, First Post

[25yearsmlc]

I think DB produces results. I don't know the stats but I'm one of them. I can say, with utter certainty, I'd be divorced if I had not had my DB coach or this site. Period.

But when you read all those books, it's easy to confuse the strategies and approaches. IF their approaches are truly similar, then great, it's no biggie.

But MANY of those writers/books are NOT similar to DBing. So You may have to choose ONE approach only, b/c how can you measure results or monitor if you are mixing it up?

Just bear that in mind, but otherwise I think you're doing some good work.

Keep making it about YOUR WORK and stay in your sandbox. Why?

B/C
1) you only control YOU, so all your efforts at "fixing" her, will backfire;

and

2) it's not your job to fix her. It's your job to support her and be YOUR best self;

and

3) Finally, Your w is not here trying to save the m. You are. So nothing about what she has to do, or should do, or might do,

is relevant HERE. Make sense?

Keep at it!