Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

I'm not sure, I guess, how to make sure my thoughts are clear while not putting on pressure or blame. Part of me worries that through not pursuing I'm coming across as "cold"/unfriendly and will lead him to think that I no longer have an interest in the relationship so he for sure needs to get out. Part of me thinks if he KNEW that I wasn't, maybe he'd rethink his position. But I think I made my position on still wanting to be M pretty clear two months ago, and yes, he could always ask me or tell me that. The only thing he has actually told me is that he likes when we are talking, as opposed to ignoring each other.

"That's taking 2 data points and coming up with a conclusion." - I'm not sure what that is referring to? But would like to