I think I told you about the book "Not the story you think it is...a season of unlikely happiness" ...you switch has always reminded me of that book. The author lives in a mountainous state w/ two kids and her H wanted to move to his own apartment and said the same things like "the kids will be fine...this is actually good for the kids etc...". So it seems it be somewhat script behavior and feelings that he is experiencing in this foggy time of his.
But anyways... I admire your strength....and from what I can see, you are handling this forced rollercoaster ride pretty darn well. Your kids have an awesome and brave mom
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope