"H, I have a request of you. I would like you to please take down the photos of our children from your online dating profile. I don't feel comfortable having their photos on the internet for anyone to see. And, I would like you to please remove any photos that were taken by me. I feel, for myself and our children, very hurt and disrespected that you would use photos I took for memories of our special family moments in this way."
(I was literally shaking when I said this. WTF is wrong with me??)
How did you feel about this afterward?
Was there a shift within you as you said these words to H?
What did you take from H's response to your request?
He texted you afterward...he seemed to shift as well.
Focus on those things instead of what an ASS he is...remember the butterfly effect, M.
