No real update, just me rambling..... things have been quiet on this front. The last Ttime I talked to H through email he mentioned sending D paperwork and the bank forms ASAP....I think it has been a month since then? Im not sure....I gave him my work mailing address b/c I am moving at the end of March and him not sending the ASAP is no surprise...so I didnt want him to send it to my current address and not get it at all if I have already moved.

Valentines day was just another day....I truly enjoyed seeing all the posts on FB and IG of people sharing their gifts and acknowledging their loved ones.....and seeing guys going into office buildings w/ flowers to surprise their s/o and a girl with so many balloons I thought she was going to float away...the smile on her face was priceless as she took them to her car on her way to given them to her s/o. It made me smile.

I got a friend from my home state a job where I work so she is moving to where I am and will be staying with me for a few months (hopefullynindont regret this lol)... shes 25 and needs to learn to detach from her family (they are unhealthy people...she is holding her self back from progressing by taking care of her mom who is married to a jerk. When her mom found out she is moving her mom was very negative about the city shes coming to etc...when her brother found out he got angry with my friend and said with her leaving the mom will now be his responsibility and that is unfair [she lives with the mother and helps pay her rent b/c the step dad gambles away his end of the money and doesnt contribute to the house hold])

I told her she has to get on her feet first I order to truly be a help to her family...and her mom isnt her responsibility...if mom chooses to stay with a man who treats her badly and doesnt contribute to the household, that is her choice....not your problem.

But yeah... im not necessarily looking forward to a temporary roommate...but it will allow me to get a second job a she will be able to help w/ my dog's care....

So I am going to start looking for a daytime job that pays me what I am worth w/ a Master's degree and continue working my current night job (Its a 12hr shift, I am allowed to sleep after midnight) for a few more months and save everything i make there, then quit the night job and stick with the new day job I will hopefully get soon.

Im going to start looking for a new apartment at the start of March...I am excited and hoping for hard wood floors...lol


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope