I have about 3 months to DB my but off. W said she filed on Tuesday, no kids in this marriage just step kids so it should only take 3 months in this state. I'm sure if going dark is something I should when W has told me I didn't pay enough attention to her, I didn't make sure she was safe in a vehicle. Both cars are brand new, primarily not thinking about her and picking up things she needs, instead she did all that. I went to get a haircut and didn't say goodbye and she stopped me saying aren't you going to say goodbye to anyone. So I walked up to her and kissed her, she began to tear up and I asked what's wrong she said nothing. I said goodbye to her and the kids.

W asked me who I was on the phone with I just said I was taking care of something. She then said oh I can't ask you who your talking to it's a big secret. She then said don't ask who I'm on the phone with then. I just ok.

I know I jumped a bit with this blog I'm writing. I'm going to act as if for now it's hard to do all of this. So I'm not sure going dark is a good idea. Any advise on this would be great. One other thing she did get a new phone under her mother's plan.


Me 46
W 38
Her S-14
MY D-11
2/13/14 W-Filed D