They really are the prize, I agree completely Willbewell.

I know what you mean about the OW. It shouldn't 'matter' but ... It does.

I have been thinking about if I should be starting to 'do something different'

My MO has been to keep doing what I am doing- as also you have all supported and encouraged.

Him going MIA though was so ' start of the sitch MLC' after a slow slow progression forward- it made me think I need to change things. What do to all think? Although as I am writing this I can almost answer that :

He might have run back in the tunnel after positive steps and interactions as of late. So changing things may not help.

Any thoughts?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home