Fighting... he couldn't take the fighting anymore. I don't recall what the fights were about...Just normal stuff, i think.
After his best friend died, he started to re-evaluate his life. He also mentioned that he thought that if he threw me a rope, that I would just hang myself. He lost his trust in me.... He "thought" that the male friend I had around the house (doing work for us), was someone I was going to leave him for. He kept encouraging this friendship. And yes, he became an EA...but not someone I was going to leave a 20 year rel'p.
SO.... what now?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
