So now im being selfish working on myself (fitness, planning to see friends etc)
I can't win.
just something to think about. If you get to a placw where you feel good and have something to offer how is that bad? Don't beleieve all the stuff you hear. Also, she wants to blame you for her affair? Of course we each have a role we play in our problems. But st the end of thr day, she is responsible for her own choices. She made this choice. Each of you interwcted in ways thst got you here. Each of you can interact in ways to get you ojt.
You cant truly move forward witb her if that's what she wants with OM in tbe picture. If she's interested in R she will do what is needed from her side to accomplish that.
Continue to get healthy and become your best self. There is no harm in that.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
