Hi bright I don't think he used the address out of habit- I think he knew what he was doing. They take such great pains to avoid us and give us 'false hope' that I think he would be very aware of where he was sending a package to. Especially at this stage of his journey.

And I want to reiterate - you are not a doormat. I think we become so conditioned in society to 'get back' at the people that 'wrong' us with reactions that are destructive and damaging. We are conditioned that we react these ways because it will show we have pride and self respect ( divorce, a counter affair, lashing out, etc) so when we DB- it is so counter-intuitive it can make us feel that we 'should' be 'doing' something more 'normal'.

People may see us as doormats but I strongly disagree. I think we are breaking the pattern and cycle of broken and destructive behaviours, choices and lifestyles

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home