I need all the help i can get

[Recruit]

So the W said that she would give me time to "fix what I have broken". She won't get involved and has no confidence in me pulling it off. There is no timescale - just as long as she cares to wait.

She said that she will not do anything to actively damage our R / M any further. However, she is acting like a total b*tch while saying all this.

She said she will distance get self from EA OM. She works with him, away from home 2-3 day a week. Not ideal, I know.
She told him face to face today that she wanted him to back off and he was causing her confusion at an already confused time. He said ok - and then they texted for 6 hours.

I told her that this isn't either of them backing off and she snapped that she needs a friend and he is the only one she can talk to. She said that she could never talk to me like that (we used to have the most amazing talks but its like she can't remember).

She can't go NC with OM even if she wanted to as they are involved in some very high stakes business together. Great eh?

I tried to discuss all this with her. She said that I was pushing, and everything I do weakens my position. I know this but cant seem to help myself.
She said she is here and at te minute that is the best I can hope for.

I need to stick to the 37 rules (hard), 180 like hell and continue to GAL.
She needs to see some visual changes.