You pretty much answered my question. It's not a black and white type of question. I agree that keeping the peace for your children is a must. Protecting yourself is a must. The solutions are grey.
It seems your h is calming down a bit. Just be weary of why he took his profile down. Don't conjure up too many thoughts as to why he did that. I have my own suspicions though.
About your yoga class, I felt bad hearing that. It reminded me of the time I was about 8 years old and I went trick or treating by myself because my friend ditched me. Now that I think about it, that could be a major reason of why I am the way that I am. Hmmmm.
At least you gave somebody some flowers today. I made my son some spaghetti and arranged it in the shape of a heart. Haha. I'm sure today was a lonely day for all of us...
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