Now she's sitting in her car, on the phone in the garage and I guarantee you she's talking to him. And again I'm the sneaky, selfish. A$$hole, no good.... Well you get the idea

Do I confront her? Do I let her sink her own ship? What would the DB approach be?

Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14