Just wanted to complicate the story more. Ws real parents are no longer in her life. Father passed away 4 years ago, mother is estranged and does not communicate. When I refer to mom and dad, they're her aunt and uncle.
Had a convo today that was very civil. I asked to pick the rest of my things up, she mentioned she had plans and told me to not let her know the day before. I told her to have fun on Valentine's weekend with my cousins husband. She responded calmly so I took the bait. Continued to tell her how I hope she finds happiness and I see this ending terribly for her because of married man. Also told her how we've both changed and how I am not mad at her feelings as I've helped contribute to that. Rather, I am mad at her actions. Then told her I hope someday we can be friends once all this ends because she helped shape the person I am today and I am grateful for that. She called me and said about my "jabs" and that I am "still not listening to her" by blaming the D on the OM. I calmly responded and said we will both have differing opinions. She claimed her mom and dad and counselor told her she would be D because of me and her choice is solely because of me and has nothing to do with OM. (I know this is absolutely a lie because her mom told me otherwise)
Anyone want to shed some light? At least let me know you're reading it? Thanks!
