2S2Q, I totally understand what you mean. I did that for Christmas. In my case though I think it was pursuing. She waited till I left the house to read the card, then didn't acknowledge the gift for 2 days after. Being the glutton for punishment that I was I HAD to ask about it and she replied Oh yeah! thanks!
If you are going to practice detachment I would think you would have to not do that anymore. I think as time passes and you keep giving gifts eventually you will look for a positive reaction. If you don't get one it will crush you.
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???