My W did tell me she doesn't mind listening to what I have to say she told me this morning. My biggest problem is I work afternoons and I only see her on my days off. I actually made it a point to have two weekends off when our kids are at there other parents homes.
My W and I talked last night and she brought up R, she told me that the non-relationship with her son was one of the main reasons she is wanting out because he seems to be better when I'm not around the house when their home. I told her I was wrong on how I handled trying to bond with him. I tried by riding bikes,playing catch etc. His only interest is playing video games. I never tried playiing with him. I only resorted to how I was a kid. My D loves going outside, she also likes video games, she has a balance.
The line of work I do has made me suspicious of people, my step S always played games like call f duty grand theft auto and I worried that he was being reclusive and not getting social skills. I actually feared he may be one of these kids that would snap on a go on a rampage. He's a very smart kid and I dolove him. I just didn't handle him right.
My W did tell me she doesn't mind listening to what I have to say. I'm treading water with this. When we talked last night she did cry and told me she loved me but not in love with me. The funny thing is we went out Saturday I suprised her by taking her to an art gallery, she was extremely excited when we pulled up. We then went to church in one of the countries olds cathloc churches. She thought that was awesome we then went to outdoor venue that had some bands plaguing and we new two of the members. We then went home I lit a candle and gave her a massage we then made love. And now I'm Here.
My W has always asked for my opinion in everything she does, for example should I wear my hair this way or this way. So my question is what if I can get her to read DB or DR or both. I believe there is a small chance she might. she is always reading Self help books. I know this goes against all the DB principals and the 37 rules. My thing is if we don't try we will never know.
