2S2Q . . . how do you feel about it? Do you feel like you did what you wanted to do, and you are OK with it? Or did you maybe notice later that you thought you hadn't attached any expectations to it, but you kinda sorta did?
Think about it. Were you testing the waters to see what your W would do? Or were you just giving them to her out of the kindness of your heart? (It could be both, too.)
Add me to the list of wanting to know how to switch off feelings. I'd give an arm and a leg for that tutorial.
I've decided I will buy flowers for myself today. Because I know with 100% certainty that I will appreciate them and appreciate the person who gave them to me. Then I will reciprocate by giving myself a massage appointment. It's a win-win.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
