Today's is Valentine's day, but I think I did a very stupid thing. I didn't control myself and confronted with H for his cheating. I know it is no use to anything, but I was still so angry when I found out last weekend and Monday H went to see the OW. H supposed to took the kids to some activities on Saturday and picked up them from afterschool on Monday night, but he just texted me that he couldn't because he needed to work over time. Especially on Saturday since the two kids had different activities and the schedule is conflict, I had to ask my friend to help take care of one kid. On Monday he was absent from work; so he had to work over time on Thursday. It was his turn to pick up kids and he couldn't make it again. The ugly thing is that even I found out the truth, he still denied. He demanded the proof. He even lied to his parents last night, and told them because of my faults he wants a D. I know I should totally ignore him, but somehow I couldn't control myself when I heard he blamed me again to his parents. It's so hard to deal with a cheating WAS. Any suggestions? Thanks.
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013
