Thanks AJ,

It really does make you better or overall a stronger person.

The OW doesn't live next door now (her mom does). So H and her visit often which I know H is probably uncomfortable with but he doesn't have the backbone to tell her he doesn't want to go! His problem not mine.

Happy valentines all. S18 just came home with flowers and a card for me!!! I am so blessed I have such great kids.


M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending