my H is leaving "soon" but I don't know when, maybe by the 1st of the month. I took down all the wedding photos and tossed them. I can't look at them anymore, it's too sad. I have plans to paint almost every room and re arrange things, I want to make this home a sanctuary now and not just some bitter reminder. I'm going to be here for at least 5 years and I still hope for reconciliation but i'm definitely painting the porch and garage doors and making other changes around the house just to make me feel better. I'm enjoying reading your posts artsy because I'm in a similar boat and it's good to feel like i'm not alone!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs