On the topic of the match.com photos - is it out of line to ask him to remove pics of my children? (Whether I took them or not.) I find it disrespectful to my children that he is using them to try to get dates with someone other than their mother. Particularly when they think he is coming home in two months.
It makes me want to throw up.
I don't know how he tells himself the story in his head that he is such an honorable guy with integrity and character.
(That's on my list of who-knows-the-answer, not worth my energy to even consider.)
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14