I like what Wonka wrote above. I'm in a similar situation White. My H says I've turned the girls against him with my "nonsense talk."

Remove yourself, as much as possible, and allow them to sort this out among themselves.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson