It does sound like it could be MLC. There is a board on here that has A LOT of good information about that and tips - I've been reading it, I think my H is in one too. Similar situation, out of the blue he asks for a D. He hasn't moved out yet but will in a few weeks I think. I asked to work on it and he does not want to, his mind is made up. Currently trying to detach and GAL. He has to figure this out on his own. Read everything you can about it and see if it fits. Keep posting, we can help each other.


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs