own buz 22:mediation to reconcilliation, hopefully

[makingmagic]

Hmmm. Trying to understand how to write this without him sounding bad. H resents the years he feels I didn't contribute (right or wrong). I did. However he now has financial fears. He is looking to secure his financial future before being able to reconcile. As the mediator stated. She feels he really does love me but is conflicted and as he said he really doesn't know what love means. He is seeking financial security and admits to needing help figuring out what he wants out of life. He admits there is an emotional wall. The mediator was able to design a way to oroect his financial interests that may also be suitable to me too. But, it is designed as a cohabitation agreement along with reconciliation.

If he agrees. We could be fine.

If not. Then I will have to negotiate a much better agreement for separation, as this agreement is far more suitable to his financial security.

I hope this makes some sense. If not, ask away!!!