Another Irony of DB JF, The stronger and more self aware the DB'er becomes...The more the WAS spouse tends to despise them (This is straight out of my ex's mouth by the way).
Sounds whacked JF...but the angrier she is at the moment....The better the job you are doing on yourself....
A lot of life is perception (I have this same talk with another poster)....The problem with perception is that it can turn into reality. In you situation....You do have a choice. You could walk out the door any day....nobody will stop you. Now you can use the excuses of finances or convenience, but those are just excuses. Both of those excuses are easily recoverable.....If you asked me why I thought you were staying...I would say I think it is because your values, principles, and long term goals match with the action of staying. See you shouldn't be staying because you have no choice...You should be staying because that is who you are!!!
