Separated and on a Walk

[paul19510]

I'm with KGirl here . . . I know that MWD talks about looking for baby steps, but I don't really buy into that with a WAS. My H has said and done a ton of things ("good night" or a wave was the least of them) that made me have hope, but they all turned out to mean absolutely nothing other than that's what he felt like doing at the time, with no regard for how it affected me.

I'm not saying that they aren't good signs in your sitches, Paul and KG . . . just saying that your energy is better spent on working on you. I didn't really want to believe this before, but I see now it's soooo true - if your W (or H) wants to work on things, R, go to MC, whatever - they know how to tell you that.


I guess i am in an anti-WAS mood right now, but I think they are all a bunch of crazy bitches, and who knows what the F they are thinking at any given moment. I am not even sure they do.

Paul, I hope you have an awesome trip!

hi M. Thanks. You made me kaugh when I read this. Its spot on.