Interesting ideas to ponder. I'm sure people have lots of differing opinions on this, but to me it makes sense. but you really have to mean it if you say it. otherwise, you just make a big mess. I'm not really ready to say these things and I don't need to be right now. just discussing.....
This makes no sense to me. If you can say it and actually mean it, then I think you are in a place where you aren't going to be hung up on your W and so it wouldn't be a problem anyway.
I think it would only be helpful if it was a lie and you could let the W believe it to relieve her of the burden. But if it's a lie, then I think that's going to be clear and you would just look pathetic.
Does anyone think I need to drink a can of PMA tonight?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
