She left - My Story, First Post

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I never associated the whole "from this day forward" statement, but I really do like it. In my core I also am someone who believes in admitting ones errors when discovered and correcting what is wrong, both professionally and personally. Too bad it has taken a S to make me realize my issues/problems.

I was reading other threads and read a suggestion from LITB to read the "developing detachment" article from the livestrong website.

It is pretty eye opening as there are lots of issues I see with needing to detach from my job, it takes way too many emotions out of me and has too much control of my life.

What I also realized is that I think when my wife said she broke she became emotionally detached with me. Looking back with some clarity I could notice some increased coldness after this point.

Is it common for a WAW to become detached from the LBS? The article along with some of the comments from my wife seem to make me think that she has become detached.

I know I am supposed to be lovingly detached from the my WAW, but what kind of situation does it put us in if we are both detached?