And that is the stance she will take to shift blame on you and justify. Stand up big guy. Nice job. Just avoid confrontation and do not engage any further. Narcissists shift blame. In fact, they spew accusations and insults that are in fact things they do and act like. It is interesting. Look up histrionic personality disorder (hpd) and narcissistic personality disorder (nod) and borderline personality disorder (bpd). Bet there are things that make you go 'wow!'. Anyway, she may not be clinical in these areas, but in her state may exhibit these things. Or, she could be. My ex, hpd all the way. Just hold your ground without confrontation. Confident, not angry. That was my mistake and learned to late. However, I am done being a doormat and protecting myself now. Sleep tight pal. We got yer back. Be a great dad. She will resent that too, which is why she made the comment about the kids.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
