Nope. Definitely cannot change her. It is sad and maddening at the same time.
Would love to get away. Soonest I can now is end April or early May. I will take them to the Caribbean.
I took d11 for counselling tonight. Debriefed with counsellor. Counsellor let me know ex has now agreed to do her own counselling. That's a good thing.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.