Nope. Definitely cannot change her. It is sad and maddening at the same time. Would love to get away. Soonest I can now is end April or early May. I will take them to the Caribbean. I took d11 for counselling tonight. Debriefed with counsellor. Counsellor let me know ex has now agreed to do her own counselling. That's a good thing.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.