"Just for a little amusement . . . H said he was going to come over to pack the kids' stuff for their trip this weekend. I told him to send a list of what they need to pack, and they could pack on their own. (I didn't want him here, and I figure it's time they learn to do that anyway - and maybe time for H to learn how to write a list too, LOL.) The list he sent does not include pajamas or underwear. Tempted to just give the list to the kids as is . . . ."
You should totally do that. Actually, your kids would suffer or will they? You don't really need underwear or pjs. Hehe. I say let him screw up. Just this once maybe? Dont intervene just this one time. Who knows, your kids may realise they need underwear and pack it themselves or your h will realise he's a dumbass for forgetting about underwear.
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