Sad times

[MamaB]

Thank you Paul. I'm trying to take steps to GAL, I think not doing it sooner part of the reason I'm in this situation.

Artsy and Paul, I will tell him soon, but everytime I picture what I'm going to say, it is not as calm and rational as I would like it to be. When my H called me on the phone 3 weeks ago to tell me he wanted a D, he had already gone to a lawyer. He emailed me a few days later about having mediation to save us money, he has since retained a lawyer using some of that money. He also payed down 11.5 in credit card debt (from a card that is in his name only) from that money.

I have gone to a lawyer who said that there really was not much I could do unless I filed for D and that would put a "stay" on all accounts. I jut don't want to file because I don't want the D, and I don't want to have to pay for filing.

The stealing/hording of the money is making it hard for me to address getting to a place of decent communication with my H. The person I trusted most is leaving me in a very bad financial situation. I am still trying to address my issues that lead to this, I hope the IC will help with that.