I should provide a little more background as to why I said my WAW seems confused. After my 180, I have stopped pursuing and just having a PMA.
She is currently avoiding talking about our split/finances/or D details and seems more calm and avoids looking at my eyes when talking.
Last week she mentioned we may need to talk at some point (I assume most likely about the D details). She said this while looking at me and started to tear up with a sad look on her face. I gave her a hug and told her to be strong and just to go get her pedicure. I learned to give her even more space than what she expected. Living together is hard but you can see why I sense she is going through internal battles.


Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms