work is good; H is crazy

[Whiterose]

I talked with the boys last night. S14 wouldn't say much about his responses other than trying to justify them so I kinda just let the conversation slide.

They wouldn't mind trying one night a month for now and see how it goes. S14 said "yeah, that's ok" and s19's concern was getting to and from work. Where his dad lived.

Haven't responded to H yet about what the boys said but early this morning I got a text asking what S14's plans were tomorrow. I asked if it was for dinner (ever valentines I make a special dinner with dessert) and H "whenever" I said we have dinner plans, as I've already worked out the mr I with them, but depending on S14's project maybe in the day. I asked if he would like to help with it. He asked when it was due and what it was. I said hockey cards with info on the Russian revolution (supposed to be the French Revolution but I've since learned at parent teacher s14 was not doing the work on anything French Revolution I think because H is French). H asked if S14 had hockey cards, I said no he would need to make them, and he said "wow that [censored]" I said "I agree". That's the last I've heard from him. He did also message S19 but all e had was tonight and husband said "sh1t. How's studying going?"


Do you think his sudden interest in the boys sleeping over and seeing them this weekend is due to ventines day?? Last year was very tense as H and I were struggling (I with my desire to be out and H withdrawn more than ever). I knew he just wasn't as invested in our marriage as before. I now see it was full blown MLC