Sad times

[paul19510]

I agree with Artsy in the sense that this may start getting a little dicey.... I am not a L but you should likely talk one to ensure you and the kids are ok given the facts you stated here...they'll be able to ease your mind or at least help you work in ways that won't hurt you.

If he's moving $$ around and it might impact things for the family, you may want to see what rights you do or do not have in your state. You don't have to retain one to talk over this case. I interviewed a couple of people before I found a L I really liked and had good recommendations. it costs about $50 in my area to do that. Don't tell you H you did that just yet. Some thing are better left unsaid. if needed, you can tell h things later.