Yes it is normal in fact it should be expected. After all, she has rid herself of the thing(you) that is making her unhappy.
They have to tell themselves this to justify their reason for leaving.
Cadet said it, Believe nothing that you hear and half of what you see.
They are a tuned to a duck. Happy and calm on the surface paddling and struggling like heck underneath.
It a rollercoaster for them also my friend not just the LBS
Stay strong and keep a PMA!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014