Oh, and something we are all learning in this place when we're new at it...go do something else. She walked away from you, return the favor (I'm really paraphrasing the sentiment).

Go keep improving yourself, not to win her back, but just because it makes sense. Ever wonder how the jerky guys seem to get the girls...its because they don't care....then they get chased. Walk away...really walk away...don't be a jerk about it...just don't care so much. Trust me, I'm having to learn this the hard way.....


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14