Unlearning Conflict Avoidance - 9

[MrBond]

"Yes, Wonka, I am (co-) owner of the house, and earn 80% of the family income, though my W has done most of the extensive renovations."

I don't think it was meant to be taken literally. It meant that you shouldn't be afraid to go upstairs of your own home.

"W asked if she could take the car, and I said of course, I don't need it. I hate it when she does that."

Hates when she does what? She asked for your permission. Why would that get you upset? This along with your little pet peeve about her not referring to you by name is a MINOR thing.

"I just hate the atmosphere and tension between W and I, and feel sorry that my d15 has to be in this."

Then do something about it. Just when you start to build momentum, you keep stopping.

STOP BEING AFRAID!