She also told me she was happy I was working on myself, but it is too late. This was early on and must have felt like salt in the wounds.

I heard from others that she knows I have been changing, but doesn't think it will last. This makes me think she assumes I am trying to bribe her back into the R.

One of the most hurtful remarks was that she sees herself as someone I can contact when/if I get married again to ask for R advice.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15