I just read your post and it helped me immensely. I've been trying to put this in God's hands and reading your post really made me see it from a different perspective - that God wants them to find their own way back - I believe that. I just hadn't thought about it that way. It's so nice to know I'm not alone and that there are so many of you on these boards - these posts are all so helpful, especially to us newbies.
thank you!


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs