She is not as cold towards me and talks in a normal tone of voice when exchanging the kids. I am now allowed to have 1 child per Friday night till Sat noon time. This is a huge step. Got tired of asking so I just told her this is not a bad thing to have my son overnight and did it. I alternate the kids so I can have quality one on one time with each of them equally.
As of December she is now dropping the kids off at my place Sunday & Wednesday evenings, and then I drop them back at her place. It feels good to hang out with them at my own place. I had both of them overnight on Xmas night so Boxing Day was our Xmas, It was so fun! Had some friends & family over and had such a blessed feeling that as lonely I think my life is, I will never be alone. It was a wonderful feeling.
It feels like we are drifting more apart, this is what she wanted so I granted it to her. I last talked on the phone with her in July; last email was for Halloween as she sent me a picture of the boys in their costumes. Other than that it has just been texts about when she will arrive to drop off the boys.
She is friendlier towards me but no other indications that she wants to reconcile. Is this helping or making things worse?
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
