ohhh also... breathe, speak calmly & confidently. Say things only once and then breathe and walk away. Do not get baited into more discussion over this matter. State your words and be firm & confident. This behaviour has got to stop!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)