not a pro... sounds pretty good to me... EXCEPT for the ultimatum.

Try: "Im sorry you feel that way, I am clear where you stand in this relationship."....use "i" statements

I dont like the "if you dont like it you can leave" part. In your head you can be saying... "if you dont like it, too bad"

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)